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T O P I C R E V I E Wenchantressokay so yesterday i was online and my crush (mr. scorpy) started a convo with me... i was just going with the flow until he asked me who i like, i was almost speechless and definitely was unsure what to say. I told him i only liked two guys in my lifetime and that i feel uncomfy talking about it and he said that its fine, its fine if i dont tell him what their names are..during our convo he also told me that i'm his bestfriend nd i also told him that i never knew that he sees me that way (but i'm so happy inside!) then he explains to me that i already was at the beggining and that i just didn't know it, then he starts to reveal some things about himself to me and also his secrets and he also started to reveal his soft side, it was very cute. He also kept asking me about my likes and dislikes (very scorpionic i knoww!) and he always brings up the topic about who i like and so i asked him why he keeps on asking me about it and he said "cos i'm your bestfriend, arent we ought to tell each other our secrets?" i think he already figured out that its him that i like and that he just want to confirm it by making me admit it to him but i really wish that telling him how i feel was easy, but its not the whole time we were talking, i could feel his intensity, the way he asks me questions, it's almost like he's dissecting me..i asked him if he wants to know all about me and he said "pretty much" and when i ask him if he hates me cos i can't answer some of his questions or becos i only exposed little about me, he said its okay, if you don't want to i'm not forcing you, i wouldn't hate you, he also asked me about my family and stuff and he also tell things from his childhood, its really cute.......but, the feeling i'm feeling right now and during the time we were chatting is just too overwhelming, i can't stop the having the thought that he could possibly had fallen for me, he was too open...but, couldn't it be the case?enchantresswhats more overwhelming was that i once asked a tarot reader about our relationship and she told me that she almost have goosebumps while reading my cards, she has the gift to see soul pieces and that he is my Other Half!scorp91Well i'm not always great on giving advice on things like this lol...however i would say that the fact that he obviously trusts you enough to open up to you like that is a BIG thing for us scorpio moons! And i know one of the things i do when i'm interested is ask lots of questions like that enchantress@scorp91: i swear he asked heaps of questions lol, he almost sounded like he's interviewing me! he even wants to know my secrets and when i ask him to do it first and he'll just open up! its unbelievable and at the same time, freaky! what if he has fallen head over heels? omg!!! scorp91 quote:Originally posted by enchantress:@scorp91: i swear he asked heaps of questions lol, he almost sounded like he's interviewing me! he even wants to know my secrets and when i ask him to do it first and he'll just open up! its unbelievable and at the same time, freaky! what if he has fallen head over heels? omg!!! 'interviewing' haha yeah it can be a bit like that! well it sounds like he has! go for it... tell him who you really like lol ;-) enchantress quote:Originally posted by scorp91: go for it... tell him who you really like lol ;-) i was going to! but i thought that telling him in person when its just the two of us looks more sincere and romantic so i'll just have to wait till our vacation is overrr NothingbutanameNot a scorp moon, but a scorp sun, mars, and pluto (all conjunct) Cap moon (1st house) anyhow, I was in your scorp crush/best friend's position two weeks ago with my own best friend of 8 years. lol said those EXACT things your scorp said! my advice? go for it it works! I tHINK WE SAY THE 'but we are best friends' thing as a real way of developing/showing intimacy and sort of baring all (although in retrospect with myself and perhaps with your guy, you two probably seem like you're already in a relationship already and you just don't know it but yes, go for it scorp91 quote:Originally posted by enchantress: i was going to! but i thought that telling him in person when its just the two of us looks more sincere and romantic so i'll just have to wait till our vacation is overrr woooo let us know what happens!FaithIt sounds like he likes you. Maybe you could turn the questions around on him? So you don't have to say it first? Like, "What kind of girl do you like? Ever like a girl like...well, me, for example?" Good luck!enchantress quote:Originally posted by Nothingbutaname:Not a scorp moon, but a scorp sun, mars, and pluto (all conjunct) Cap moon (1st house) anyhow, I was in your scorp crush/best friend's position two weeks ago with my own best friend of 8 years. lol said those EXACT things your scorp said! my advice? go for it it works! I tHINK WE SAY THE 'but we are best friends' thing as a real way of developing/showing intimacy and sort of baring all (although in retrospect with myself and perhaps with your guy, you two probably seem like you're already in a relationship already and you just don't know it but yes, go for it just reading your comment gives me tingles in my spine! brings back all the emotions i had while i was talking to him on chat, hehehe...uhm, can u please give me an advice? pretty please? should i just tell him upfront or ask him who he likes? atm, i'm going for telling him straight out, what do you think?enchantress quote:Originally posted by Faith: "What kind of girl do you like? Ever like a girl like...well, me, for example?" wow! sounds like a good idea! =Denchantress quote:Originally posted by scorp91: woooo let us know what happens!definitely! i hope this fairytale of mine has a happy ending!Nothingbutaname quote:Originally posted by enchantress: just reading your comment gives me tingles in my spine! brings back all the emotions i had while i was talking to him on chat, hehehe...uhm, can u please give me an advice? pretty please? should i just tell him upfront or ask him who he likes? atm, i'm going for telling him straight out, what do you think? just tell him how you feel, he'll appreciate the honesty and i's authentic and he'll pick up on that. Personally I wouldn't hint at it, as he may not pick up on it so yeah just be honest, be yourself! and things will work out well (lol not sure how he will respond but you could text him something cute like a quote or a smiley face and if he responds with something witty or with a smiley face back, it'll be a good way of 'finding out' without actually saying it as of yet) but by all means you'll have to tell him Good luck and keep us updated, it should work out in your favor butterflyxoxxohe likes you or else he wouldnt be asking you all of those questions or be so open. i am rarely open to people unless i like them more than friends. i would be frustrated if you replied with shallow or no answers, we like depth and secrets and intelligence. we are very cautious so it would help if you were light like an air sign or sweet/kind get him to trust you and be sincere.sun/venus/moon all in scorpioenchantress quote:Originally posted by butterflyxoxxo:he likes you or else he wouldnt be asking you all of those questions or be so open. i am rarely open to people unless i like them more than friends. i would be frustrated if you replied with shallow or no answers, we like depth and secrets and intelligence. we are very cautious so it would help if you were light like an air sign or sweet/kind get him to trust you and be sincere.sun/venus/moon all in scorpiobutterflyxoxxo, my friend also have the same placements as you but there's 2 more planets he have in scorpio; jupiter and pluto. While talking to him, i was happily answering his questions it's just that whenever he wants me to share a secret, i cant think of anything! -___- becos to be honest, the only secret i keep is being so in love with him (haha, i know it sound so corny! but as i said earlier, i want to tell him about it in person).. i also tried my best to answer his questions truthfully and honestly.. i also try to add a bit of humour so the tension between us loosen up a bit and i knew that both of us didn't wanted to end the conversation; what do you do at night? do u like any guy at the moment? whats ur fave..? the question just keeps on coming but not in a way that he's sounding like total stalker or freak lolNabilaI hope this all works out well for you. I've had a very similar situation going on for some time now, double the intensity I guess... I'm Scorpio Sun/Moon/Venus and he is Scorpio Sun/Moon/Mercury (both with some outer planets in Scorpio too). Its very rare for a Scorpio to call you their best friend unless they genuinely mean it, or want something more. My personal situation was a bit more complicated (for reasons I'm not going to go into at the moment) however from my experience when you enter that kind of territory with a person whose emotions are dominated so by Scorpio, it is due to real, genuine affection. I personally hardly ever find someone I am comfortable with and to be honest, if I don't grill someone (in the way you described) then I do not care. So it's a good sign.RandallMoving to Soul Unions.------------------"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca ClarkenchantressUPDATE: I didn't tell him that i like him and i'm not sure if i still want to! So, me and my other friends decided to meet up somewhere round the campus..after months of not being able to see my scorpio friend,, i finally saw him today...but i was disappointed on what happened i was gonna tell him that its him that i like but then we were there, he didn't do anything, like nothing. he didn't even try to initiate conversation with me,acted like i was never there, kept talking to others BUT me, like wth?! whats up with that?? after telling me some crap, telling me i'm his bestfriend and i'm part of his inner circle and whatever, hes just gonna ignore me like that? i don't even know what to do, i feel like giving up on him..after making me feel like i could have a chance on him but then acting differently when in front of me..i'm getting tired of it, what the hell should i do? is he testing me?? the pain is unbearable i can't even cry...anongrl10wish i had an answer to make u feel bettercan u approach him or wait out until he approaches you again then u can ask what's up with thatenchantress quote:Originally posted by anongrl10:wish i had an answer to make u feel bettercan u approach him or wait out until he approaches you again then u can ask what's up with thatits sad to say that we barely have any classes in common. :'( later thiss afternoon he apologized on fb for not keeping me 'entertained', and i was thinking 'what a lie!! seriously?! you're gonna say sorry to me after ignoring me the whole time we were actually hanging out? I. Dont. Think. So. uh, sorry but I'm not accepting your sorry'.. why is he doing this to me? Dx everyday, i'm always facing a battle between my heart and my mind. I have to focus about my uni and stuff but it seems like my heart always knocks me down anongrl10I know it's hard but wait a few days. You will see if he approaches you again.I don't know your ages but if he meant it he will show it again. It's hard to be patient but it sometimes pays off.
quote:Originally posted by enchantress:@scorp91: i swear he asked heaps of questions lol, he almost sounded like he's interviewing me! he even wants to know my secrets and when i ask him to do it first and he'll just open up! its unbelievable and at the same time, freaky! what if he has fallen head over heels? omg!!!
'interviewing' haha yeah it can be a bit like that! well it sounds like he has! go for it... tell him who you really like lol ;-)
quote:Originally posted by scorp91: go for it... tell him who you really like lol ;-)
i was going to! but i thought that telling him in person when its just the two of us looks more sincere and romantic so i'll just have to wait till our vacation is overrr
quote:Originally posted by enchantress: i was going to! but i thought that telling him in person when its just the two of us looks more sincere and romantic so i'll just have to wait till our vacation is overrr
woooo let us know what happens!
Maybe you could turn the questions around on him? So you don't have to say it first?
Like, "What kind of girl do you like? Ever like a girl like...well, me, for example?"
Good luck!
quote:Originally posted by Nothingbutaname:Not a scorp moon, but a scorp sun, mars, and pluto (all conjunct) Cap moon (1st house) anyhow, I was in your scorp crush/best friend's position two weeks ago with my own best friend of 8 years. lol said those EXACT things your scorp said! my advice? go for it it works! I tHINK WE SAY THE 'but we are best friends' thing as a real way of developing/showing intimacy and sort of baring all (although in retrospect with myself and perhaps with your guy, you two probably seem like you're already in a relationship already and you just don't know it but yes, go for it
just reading your comment gives me tingles in my spine! brings back all the emotions i had while i was talking to him on chat, hehehe...uhm, can u please give me an advice? pretty please? should i just tell him upfront or ask him who he likes? atm, i'm going for telling him straight out, what do you think?
quote:Originally posted by Faith: "What kind of girl do you like? Ever like a girl like...well, me, for example?"
"What kind of girl do you like? Ever like a girl like...well, me, for example?"
wow! sounds like a good idea! =D
quote:Originally posted by scorp91: woooo let us know what happens!
definitely! i hope this fairytale of mine has a happy ending!
quote:Originally posted by enchantress: just reading your comment gives me tingles in my spine! brings back all the emotions i had while i was talking to him on chat, hehehe...uhm, can u please give me an advice? pretty please? should i just tell him upfront or ask him who he likes? atm, i'm going for telling him straight out, what do you think?
just tell him how you feel, he'll appreciate the honesty and i's authentic and he'll pick up on that. Personally I wouldn't hint at it, as he may not pick up on it so yeah just be honest, be yourself! and things will work out well (lol not sure how he will respond but you could text him something cute like a quote or a smiley face and if he responds with something witty or with a smiley face back, it'll be a good way of 'finding out' without actually saying it as of yet) but by all means you'll have to tell him Good luck and keep us updated, it should work out in your favor
sun/venus/moon all in scorpio
quote:Originally posted by butterflyxoxxo:he likes you or else he wouldnt be asking you all of those questions or be so open. i am rarely open to people unless i like them more than friends. i would be frustrated if you replied with shallow or no answers, we like depth and secrets and intelligence. we are very cautious so it would help if you were light like an air sign or sweet/kind get him to trust you and be sincere.sun/venus/moon all in scorpio
butterflyxoxxo, my friend also have the same placements as you but there's 2 more planets he have in scorpio; jupiter and pluto. While talking to him, i was happily answering his questions it's just that whenever he wants me to share a secret, i cant think of anything! -___- becos to be honest, the only secret i keep is being so in love with him (haha, i know it sound so corny! but as i said earlier, i want to tell him about it in person).. i also tried my best to answer his questions truthfully and honestly.. i also try to add a bit of humour so the tension between us loosen up a bit and i knew that both of us didn't wanted to end the conversation; what do you do at night? do u like any guy at the moment? whats ur fave..? the question just keeps on coming but not in a way that he's sounding like total stalker or freak lol
------------------"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark
can u approach him or wait out until he approaches you again
then u can ask what's up with that
quote:Originally posted by anongrl10:wish i had an answer to make u feel bettercan u approach him or wait out until he approaches you again then u can ask what's up with that
its sad to say that we barely have any classes in common. :'( later thiss afternoon he apologized on fb for not keeping me 'entertained', and i was thinking 'what a lie!! seriously?! you're gonna say sorry to me after ignoring me the whole time we were actually hanging out? I. Dont. Think. So. uh, sorry but I'm not accepting your sorry'.. why is he doing this to me? Dx everyday, i'm always facing a battle between my heart and my mind. I have to focus about my uni and stuff but it seems like my heart always knocks me down
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